What is your biggest area of concern today? What worries you? What is the thing that has the potential to make you feel doomed, in despair, overwhelmed or full of sorrow?
I want so much to remind you right now that - if you are a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ - this area of suffering is the place where God intends to show His glory. God is either using this to hem you in or to develop a special area of ministry for you, so that you may encourage the brethren - your fellow sisters or brothers that may be suffering in the same way.
God will use this to draw you closer to Him, so that He can show you His power, His ability, His faithfulness, that He can and will handle it (once you get your hands off, and allow Him to work it all out, trusting in Him, laying it at His feet and trusting that His way of working it out is perfect). When we give it to the Lord, we must settle in our hearts that whatever God does with it, after you have handed it over, is His will - and you must believe that God will take care of it. Believe, believe, believe. Never lose confidence, because the minute you do - you'll be back there trying to manipulate all the circumstances just right, trying to work it out in your human strength.
This place of suffering may also be an area where God intends to grow a ministry to others through you. I'm sure Joseph would have liked to have not spent 14 years in prison in preparation for the ministry that God had for him. But he learned things there that were necessary for his future work. I can assure you that no area of suffering in your life will be wasted. It will all be used for the Kingdom. Satan will never have the victory in the life of a believer who surrenders her suffering to God. God will always, always turn every situation and circumstance around with Him as the winner, getting the glory. What Satan means for evil, God allows and intends to use for perfection, good, glory, awesome blessings. Every area of suffering, whether great or small, has the potential to be the most outrageous testimony, the most amazing story, the most God honoring, glory-giving circumstance - if the believer will perservere in faith, submitted in joyful hope and faith to God - believing even when it looks hopeless that God is working it out in the way that gives Him the most glory, and ushers us into the most victorious joyous peace.
Many years ago, when I was suffering in a tumultous marriage, I finally gave it over to God and actually thanked him for my terrible marriage - finally trusting that this was part of His big plan for my life. It had to be His plan, for nothing I could do would repair this broken thing. Now, I look back and see that, indeed, it was His plan. For, now I speak to women on marriage. It's one of the ministries that God developed. But I had to go through years of suffering, and years of mending, healing and restoration before I was spiritually prepared for this ministry. Now, I wouldn't trade those horrid years of suffering for anything - even though I felt that God had surely abandoned me during that time. It wasn't until I just gave it over to God, and said "Whatever is Your will, I accept - even if I will never have a restored marriage - I give it over to you. I've tried everything. I quit. I give up. It's yours now. I'll just trust in You and find my satisfaction, my peace and my husband in You.I choose contentment in my life, inspite of this circumstance." With that act of submission, God did a miracle. Now, my husband and I teach marriage classes and enjoy a wonderful marriage - better than I had ever dreamed it would be.
Who would have guessed that God was preparing me for a ministry in this area? I believe God is preparing each of us for ministries in many different areas. He intends to use believers to minister unto believers. Every believer has hope and comfort to offer another because of the suffering, the issues they have faced. We suffer because God is drawing us near, teaching us to quit depending on our own strength to make everything work out, or God intends to help His people through the wisdom He plans to impart to you through this turmoil.
Trust in Him. Give it to Him. Thank Him for this trial.
"In everything give thanks; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thes 5:18 (Thank Him because you believe this circumstance is part of His wonderful plan. It is going to be used for glory and good and peace in your life.)
"Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. But resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same experiences of suffering are being accomplished by your brethren who are in the world." 1 Peter 5: 8-9
Don't let the enemy devour you while you are suffering. Let God use this for His glory.
"You rejoice in this, though now for a short time you have had to be distressed and grieved by various trials and temptations so that the genuineness of your faith--more valuable than gold, which perishes though refined by fire--may result in praise, glory, and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ." 1 Peter 1: 6-7
Praise the Lord - Your suffering is not for naught - it will result in an amazing victory; and we are promised that it is for a short time. There will be an end to it. Go to the Lord, and lay it all at His feet. He's got it all handled, if you would simply let go of it, and let Him show His stuff.